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How Much Home Can You Really Afford? A Realistic Guide

📅 December 20, 2025 ⏱️ 4 min read

Online affordability calculators are designed to tell you the maximum a bank will lend you. That's a terrible way to decide what to spend. Here's a more realistic approach.

The 28/36 Rule

Financial advisors use the 28/36 rule: your housing costs should be no more than 28% of your gross monthly income, and your total debt payments should be no more than 36%. But even this is aggressive for most families.

The Real-Life Test

Forget percentages. Ask yourself these questions:

  1. Can I make this payment every month if my car breaks down?
  2. Can I make this payment if I miss one paycheck?
  3. Will I still be able to save something — even $200/month — after this payment?
  4. Will I still be able to enjoy life, or will I be house-poor?

If any answer is "no," the home is too expensive.

Houston-Specific Costs People Forget

Quick Affordability Math

For a rough estimate with owner financing:

Home Price10% DownEst. Monthly (30yr)Income Needed
$200,000$20,000~$1,650$5,900/mo
$250,000$25,000~$2,000$7,150/mo
$300,000$30,000~$2,350$8,400/mo
$400,000$40,000~$3,050$10,900/mo

Estimates include taxes, insurance, and a $35/month servicing fee. Actual payments depend on rate and term.

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